Comments on: How Can I Rebuild Trust? http://movingpastdivorce.com/2012/02/rebuilding-trust/ Helping daughters of divorce and adults going through divorce restore their faith in love. Tue, 21 May 2013 10:28:41 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1 By: Robyn Besemann http://movingpastdivorce.com/2012/02/rebuilding-trust/#comment-3231 Robyn Besemann Tue, 14 May 2013 01:20:55 +0000 http://movingpastdivorce.com/?p=464#comment-3231 Stanley, there is another resource you might look into. It is called “Chained No More…A Journey of Healing for the Adult Children of Divorce.” You can find it at http://www.robynbministries.com or on any booksellers website. Your story is very common in our participants around the country and there is great healing through this study. I will stop and pray for you right now. Robyn Besemann

]]> By: Terry http://movingpastdivorce.com/2012/02/rebuilding-trust/#comment-3169 Terry Tue, 12 Jun 2012 02:16:50 +0000 http://movingpastdivorce.com/?p=464#comment-3169 Your situation is complicated and I can’t give you a complete answer over the internet without getting more information. However, you can email me at terry@movingpastdivorce.com for a free 30 minute phone consultation and you can decide if phone consultations will work for you. If you check out my website, you’ll see that I am a licensed therapist, divorce expert, and a survivor of divorce myself. I look forward to hearing from you. Terry

]]> By: Stanley http://movingpastdivorce.com/2012/02/rebuilding-trust/#comment-3166 Stanley Wed, 06 Jun 2012 01:21:48 +0000 http://movingpastdivorce.com/?p=464#comment-3166 I have been married 3 times and started at a very young age, all 3 marriages were short in nature as well as shared shockingly similar characteristics of anger and aggression. All 3 women were in dire need of “saving” and I entered into each union begrudgingly although I was not in touch with those emotions at the time nor of my tendency to rescue although much of the issue stemmed from sexual abuse upon me as a child from which I have sought counseling and healing.

I have spent the last 7 years healing, focusing on myself and ensuring my emotional and relational health. I have learned to love life, myself and my Lord and Savior. I am very pleased of the place that I am now finding myself in my life and I am looking forward to a much better 2nd half of my life with a satisfying and healthy relationship with the right woman and in my successful career as a businessman.

I have worked with a single woman for the last 5 years and we have developed a strong friendship and a semi-strong romantic relationship over the last 8 months. I am as pleased of whom this wonderful is…. as I am as pleased of whom she is not…. a reflection or similarity to previous marriages. She is kind and trustworthy and faithful. I have known her for such a long period of time and I know that she is not being deceptive about her character.

However, I am finding that due to the fact that my last marriage ended so dramatically and with so much excessive drama, that I am struggling to trust my new relationship due to the fact that I am untrusting from my previous ones. This is no reflection upon her nor upon her actions or any major decisions that are influencing this emotion.

I have tried to find books and internet searches on this healing process and have found little resource to help me with this issue. Can anyone be of assistance to me or steer me towards a solution that would be beneficial?

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