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A Man’s Self-image After Divorce

A Man’s Self-image After Divorce

By Leah Morrigan The first time I met him, Ted wore disheveled biking clothes and his eyes were bloodshot from laser surgery a few weeks before. He sat hunched over his coffee cup, eyes averted, arms occasionally crossed over his chest. He seemed absent somehow. Soon...

Financial “First Aid” for Divorce…

Financial “First Aid” for Divorce…

So, “til death do you part” has played itself out differently than you had originally imagined or planned. And now you are facing a whirlwind of emotions while trying to make sense of how you got there and how to proceed with moving forward. Regardless of which stage...

The Way In Which Individuals Respond to Losses Relating to Divorce

The Way In Which Individuals Respond to Losses Relating to Divorce

My last Blog entitled, "Emotions Play an Integral Role in Divorce Proceedings and Therefore Must be Understood by the Attorney" explained that "the emotional impact of a divorce is as severe as that of a death in the immediate family" and that "most of the literature...

Children of Divorce

Children of Divorce

As the eight children entered the room, we were filled with excitement and anticipation at what the day would bring.  Jenni, Sharon and I had been envisioning this day for months.  When we first came up with the idea of children teaching children about challenging...

Overcoming the Legacy of Divorce: 7 Pathways

Overcoming the Legacy of Divorce: 7 Pathways

By Terry Gaspard, MSW, LICSW Divorce goes back five generations in my family. Sharing this fact still shocks me and gives me reason to pause. It’s not that my ancestors didn’t strive to have successful marriages or even brag about those that lasted, it’s just that we...

Will Living Together Lead to Marriage?

Will Living Together Lead to Marriage?

Dear Tracy, Six months ago, my boyfriend and I of three years moved in together. Taking your advice, I wanted to make sure we were on the same page before making this decision.  I asked him if he could see himself marrying me, and he said he could, he just wanted more...

One Stepdad’s Story

One Stepdad’s Story

I’ll have to admit that when I became a stepfather, the day I married my wife Terry – in May of 1997 –I really had no idea what I was getting into. I was a stepfather (briefly) for three years in my first marriage. But, I was never a father before, and at the ripe...

Are You Afraid of Relationship Success?

Are You Afraid of Relationship Success?

Many people fear relationship failure. We fear that when we open ourselves up to other people, they will hurt us, and we will lose out on love. Fear of failure can hold us back and prevent us from being our best selves. It limits us by causing anxiety and fostering a...

Six Ways for Daughters of Divorce to Succeed at Marriage

Six Ways for Daughters of Divorce to Succeed at Marriage

By Terry Gaspard, MSW, LICSW Marriage is under intense scrutiny in the media in recent years. As fewer individuals are getting married, it becomes meaningful to ask why marriage is becoming such risky business. Currently, slightly over 50% percent of Americans are...

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